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		<title>The Life Of a Transsexual in 1940&#8242;s Australia: &#8220;About Vivien&#8221; A Must See Documentary</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2012 16:21:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a must-see film for transgender and allied activists: a fourteen minute documentary of Vivien, neé Walter Lee.  Vivien was a transsexual in Sydney Australia in the 1940&#8242;s, and [...]]]></description>
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<p>This is a must-see film for transgender and allied activists: a fourteen minute documentary of Vivien, neé Walter Lee.  Vivien was a transsexual in Sydney Australia in the 1940&#8242;s, and faced oppression unlike anything we see today in modern society.  The police would arrest her if she was caught in public wearing female undergarments beneath her clothes, the press railed against <em>&#8220;perverted revelries&#8221; and &#8220;nauseating parties&#8221; of &#8220;naice&#8221; boys.</em> Vivien was outed by the Truth newspaper, albeit unwittingly.</p>
<p>The film is available online on YouTube: <a href="http://youtu.be/pkc-i_cJC-4" target="_blank">About Vivien</a>.</p>
<p>A recollection of Kathy Sport, the documentarian film-maker who produced the film <a href="http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/10314610508682927#preview" target="_blank">is available here</a>.</p>
<p>Why is this a must-see?  Because all too often we choose to look how far we all have to go to find acceptance and equality in our society, but perhaps it is a good idea to sometimes turn and look backward and to consider how bad it used to be.  Transgender individuals have come far, yet still have far to go&#8230;and one thing is certain: we must remain vigil to prevent the past from happening again.</p>
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		<title>Meet Transgender Music Star Titica, From Angola</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 16:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Angola is a country well-known for its hard line against homosexuality and by extension, gender variance.  That hasn&#8217;t stopped Angolan musician Titica from seeing wide success there, however:
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angola is a country well-known for its hard line against homosexuality and by extension, gender variance.  That hasn&#8217;t stopped Angolan musician Titica from seeing wide success there, however:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-africa-17628726">Transsexual Artist Titica Takes Angola By Storm</a></p>
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<p>[A]t 25, Titica is the new face of Angola&#8217;s unique urban rap-techno fusion music style known as &#8220;kuduro&#8221;.</p>
<p>By day her songs boom from minibus taxis, by night they fill Luanda&#8217;s dance floors and at the weekends she has become the essential soundtrack for children&#8217;s parties.</p>
<p>Named best kuduro artist of 2011, she is a regular on television and radio, and has even performed at the annual Divas concert, attended by President Jose Eduardo dos Santos, where she herself was named a diva.</p>
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<p>Well done! </p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a video of her&#8217;s, and you can find many more on YouTube:</p>
<p><iframe frameborder="0" height="315" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/nu55rewex54" width="560"></iframe></p>
<p><a href="https://twitter.com/#!/TGTapestry">H/T: Transgender Tapestry, on Twitter</a></p>
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		<title>Rick Santorum May Have Helped Marriage Equality In NC. Here&#8217;s How:</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 15:13:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Former Republican candidate for president Rick Santorum may have inadvertently helped the folks here in North Carolina that are opposed to the onerous NC Amendment One&#8217;s passage on May 8th.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Amendment-1.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-4998];player=img;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4999" style="border: 1px solid black; margin: 5px;" title="Amendment-1" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/Amendment-1.jpg" alt="" width="297" height="300" /></a>Former Republican candidate for president Rick Santorum may have inadvertently helped the folks here in North Carolina that are opposed to the onerous NC Amendment One&#8217;s passage on May 8th.  To be certain, he&#8217;s no friend of marriage equality, but by dropping out of the presidential race now, he&#8217;s defused North Carolina Republicans from feeling as though they have to vote on May 8 in their presidential primary.</p>
<p>Santorum, the evangelical saviour du jour was expected to strongly contend in the ninth largest state for the delegates in the primary, and had he remained in the primary, there would have undoubtedly been a blitz of rallies, speeches and media buys by all of the remaining candidates as they fought it out to win the Republican nomination, but by dropping out, Santorum has all but assured his former rival Mitt Romney will carry the GOP standard into November.  That said, and coupled with the fact that the Republican nomination for governor is also all but wrapped up as well, there&#8217;s not going to be a pressing urgency for registered Republicans to get out to the polls in May&#8230;and while they are there, to vote in favor of Amendment 1 since Republican are largely for the measure.</p>
<p>For those who don&#8217;t know what Amendment One is:</p>
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<p>The <strong>North Carolina Same-Sex Marriage Amendment</strong> will appear on the <a title="North Carolina 2012 ballot measures" href="http://www.ballotpedia.org/wiki/index.php/North_Carolina_2012_ballot_measures">May 8, 2012 ballot</a> in the state of North Carolina as a legislatively-referred constitutional amendment.</p>
<p>The measure would define marriage in the state as between one man and one woman.<sup id="cite_ref-0"><a title="" href="http://www.ballotpedia.org/wiki/index.php/North_Carolina_Same-Sex_Marriage,_Amendment_1_%28May_2012%29#cite_note-0">[1]</a></sup><sup id="cite_ref-1"><a title="" href="http://www.ballotpedia.org/wiki/index.php/North_Carolina_Same-Sex_Marriage,_Amendment_1_%28May_2012%29#cite_note-1">[2]</a></sup></p>
<p>Same-sex marriage is already banned in the state of North Carolina. The proposed measure, however, would add the ban to the state constitution.  (wikepedia.org)</p>
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<p>While voting <em>for</em> Amendment 1 <em>won</em>&#8216;t ban Same-Sex marriage since it is already banned by statute in NC, it would create a standard where it would be difficult to challenge the statute in state courts as well as cause numerous other problems.</p>
<p>Depending on the poll you believe, the amendment <a href="http://ncvalues.org/2011/10/civitas-poll-majority-of-voters-support-nc-marriage-protection-amendment/">will pass</a> or <a href="http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2012/04/02/456778/poll-60-percent-oppose-north-carolinas-discriminatory-amendment-one/">will fail </a>when it is voted on next month.  To my thinking  that says that the side gets their vote out will win this battle.  With Santorum out, there will obviously be a smaller Republican turnout and thus fewer automatic anti-equality votes.  That doesn&#8217;t mean that anti-Amendment 1 forces can rest easy &#8212; they can&#8217;t &#8212; but it does give them a fighting chance.</p>
<p>If you live in NC, I cannot urge you strongly enough to get to the polls and to make your voice heard on the ballot.</p>
<p>Also take the time to visit <a href="http://www.equalitync.org/">Equality NC</a> and get some more information.</p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Time&#8230;Time For You To Be YOU.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 02:19:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What exactly is time? Precisely speaking it is right now. There is only NOW &#8211; the past is gone, and there&#8217;s no promise that you will be a part of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What exactly is time? Precisely speaking it is right now. There is only NOW &#8211; the past is gone, and there&#8217;s no promise that you will be a part of the future that&#8217;s to come. That leaves you the present, no more, no less.</p>
<p> As long as you have life, anyway. </p>
<p> The thing about life is that IS time. When life is gone, you&#8217;ve run out of time&#8230;so as long as there is life there is time and as long as there is time there is hope. </p>
<p> You cannot make time, save it or keep it, not in your pocket anyway.  Try to keep time in your hands and no matter how tightly you try to grasp it, it will slip away just as quickly.  You may have time to do something, or maybe you don&#8217;t. But you are always doing SOMETHING. You spend time constantly, and often you waste it, and many of us take it for granted.  &#8220;Oh, I&#8217;ll have time tomorrow,&#8221; you may tell yourself.  But will you?  Are you sure?</p>
<p> One thing that we should all do is to remember to use time wisely, because the instant a moment is gone, that moment is gone forever.</p>
<p>What does that have to do with being transgender?  Well, many of us live in fear &#8212; if we express how we feel, somehow there&#8217;s something wrong.  That&#8217;s just not true.  What IS wrong is NOT being YOU.  If you live long enough your biggest regrets will be for things you didn&#8217;t do when you had the chance.</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t have the chance to be YOU right now, when will you do it?  Tonight?  Tomorrow?  Next week?  Are you sure? </p>
<p>The truth is, that until you take the time to be you, you will never be happy.  No matter what anyone says, you owe it to yourself to be who you are.  It&#8217;s not wrong to wear a dress.  Damn the rules.  Do it.  No one ever accomplished anything that matters because they followed the rules.  They broke the rules and made new ones.  Be like them and discover&#8230;your <em>self</em>!</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><span style="color: #ff00ff;">&#8220;Those that mind don&#8217;t matter, and those that matter don&#8217;t mind.&#8221;</span><br /><span style="color: #ff00ff;">&#8211;Dr. Seuss.</span></h3>
<p>Stop and smell the roses, for you shall never pass this way again. Spend your life wisely, you only are going to get one.  Be bold, but be wise, and finish your final lap out of gas and thinking &#8220;it was one helluva ride!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Two Makeup Looks For When You Go Big With The Glamour</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2012 07:46:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every once in a while, it&#8217;s fun to to &#8220;go big&#8221; and smoulder your sexuality in the limelight of the night&#8230;in other words, work it! Usually that means a stylish [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every once in a while, it&#8217;s fun to to &#8220;go big&#8221; and smoulder your sexuality in the limelight of the night&#8230;in other words, work it! Usually that means a stylish and flattering dress, some happening heels and perhaps some high-key makeup.</p>
<p>Here are two awesome eyeshadow looks that will definitely grab some attention in your direction. It&#8217;s hard to say which one is my favorite, but I will say I keep coming back to the robin&#8217;s egg blue because it&#8217;s such a unique look.</p>
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<p> <a href="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/eye-catching-eye-shadow.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-4983];player=img;"><img class="size-full wp-image-4984 alignleft" title="eye-catching-eye-shadow" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/eye-catching-eye-shadow.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="500" /></a></p>
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		<title>Back Online After An Unpleasant Month</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Mar 2012 06:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After doing some thinking, I&#8217;ve decided that the positives of running this site far outweigh the negatives&#8230;so I brought it back online. Et voila, and here we are!
Everything should be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After doing some thinking, I&#8217;ve decided that the positives of running this site far outweigh the negatives&#8230;so I brought it back online. <em>Et voila</em>, and here we are!</p>
<p>Everything should be back where it was, at least to the last known good backup day in mid-January.</p>
<p>So why did I take this site down for a while?</p>
<p>In short, I was being harassed by a stalker.  He was one of those misguided people who doesn&#8217;t take a kind no for an answer, and in fact, he didn&#8217;t take an unkind &#8220;NO!&#8221; to heart either.  At first anyway.  A friend explained it to him and left with the understanding that this was unacceptable behavior that would have unpleasant consequences if it continued and that was that.  And yeah, it was all above board and legal.</p>
<p>That said, it&#8217;s kind of creepy to not be able to read your email when you&#8217;ve got a hundred or more messages in your mailbox every day.  They came from different addresses but were all from one guy intent on giving me a hard time because I wouldn&#8217;t give him a good time. </p>
<p>So I lowered my profile online and let it all go away.  Now it has and now I can just be me again.</p>
<p>And here I am, back as good as ever.</p>
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		<title>Renault Debuts Commercial Supporting Gay Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 16:51:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Via the awesome Copyranter, a commercial by French carmaker Renault that supports marriage equality:
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Via the awesome <a href="http://copyranter.blogspot.com/">Copyranter</a>, a commercial by French carmaker Renault that supports marriage equality:</p>
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		<title>Genital Herpes: 1 in 6 People Have It, Most Don&#8217;t Even Know</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 16:11:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Next time you are in a nightclub, take a look around and choose any six people.  Chances are, one of them has genital herpes.  Can you pick which one you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_4970" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 357px"><img class=" wp-image-4970" style="margin: 10px;" title="Herpes simplex virus" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Herpes_simplex_virus.jpg" alt="" width="347" height="271" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The Herpes Virus</p></div>
<p>Next time you are in a nightclub, take a look around and choose any six people.  Chances are, one of them has genital herpes.  Can you pick which one you think is the most likely to be infected?  Probably not.  It could be anyone.</p>
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<p>According to the CDC, about <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm">1 in 6 American adults is infected</a> with genital herpes. The CDC says that herpes &#8221;can cause recurrent painful genital sores in many adults, and herpes infection can be severe in people with suppressed immune systems.&#8221; Then, this: &#8220;Regardless of severity of symptoms, genital herpes frequently causes psychological distress in people who know they are infected.&#8221; Most people don&#8217;t know. Herpes has some serious physical side effects—it can sometimes be painful, may help facilitate the spread of HIV, and can (in very rare cases) pass an infection to a newborn through <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm">a newly infected mother</a>. But mostly, it&#8217;s awkward. In 2007, a survey of 2,000 people listed herpes as the <a href="http://jezebel.com/293831/contrary-to-popular-belief-herpes-is-so-whatevs">second most-stigmatized STD</a> (the first was HIV), and the most taboo one.</p>
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<p><a href="http://healthland.time.com/2011/04/12/how-many-patients-spread-herpes-but-dont-even-know-they-have-it/">Even more significantly</a></p>
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<p>According to a new <a href="http://jama.ama-assn.org/content/305/14/1441.abstract" target="_blank">study</a> in the <em>Journal of the American Medical Association</em>, “Most HSV-2 infections are acquired from persons without a clinical history of genital herpes,” wrote the study’s authors.</p>
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<p>Yikes.  Even worse, numbers from that study show that those unknowing carriers are spreading the disease about 10% of the time. </p>
<p>Fortunately, progress is being made towards a vaccine, but currently none exists that can prevent Herpes Simplex Virus Type 2, which causes genital herpes.  In fact, recently, <a href="http://www.latimes.com/health/boostershots/la-heb-herpes-20120105,0,7539049.story">a promising vaccine was studied and found to be completely ineffective at stopping HSV-2</a>.  Clearly, much more research needs to be done.  So how does one protect themselves? <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/latex.htm">Condom usage</a>.  </p>
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		<title>Ten Guiding Principles To Bring Change for the Good</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 15:43:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Transgendered persons often exclaim that they want to change the world, and with good reason &#8212; there are few collective groups that are more discriminated against for less reason than [...]]]></description>
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<p>Transgendered persons often exclaim that they want to change the world, and with good reason &#8212; there are few collective groups that are more discriminated against for less reason than are the transgendered. </p>
<p>Thing is, many folks overlook that the best way to start changing the world is by changing themselves. Mahatma Gandhi, a man who inspired quite a number of civil rights and freedom movements around the world during and after his lifetime, lived by a simple philosophy: truth in all situations, non-violence and indeed, acceptance of even those who disagreed with him while maintaining his own beliefs all the while.</p>
<p>Gandhi left behind some very useful thoughts to anyone who aspires to equality and freedom, and there is truly no better guidance to transgendered leaders today.  From the very aptly named <a href="http://www.positivityblog.com">Positivity Blog</a> (I recommend that you take a look at it sometime, you&#8217;ll be uplifted), <a href="http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/05/09/gandhis-top-10-fundamentals-for-changing-the-world/">here are ten of Gandhi&#8217;s guiding principles that you can apply to your own life</a> and be the agent of change that lends aid to our cause:</p>
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<p><strong><em>“You must not lose faith in humanity. Humanity is an ocean; if a few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become dirty.”</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>“The difference between what we do and what we are capable of doing would suffice to solve most of the world’s problems.”</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em>“If I had no sense of humor, I would long ago have committed suicide.”</em></strong></p>
<p>Mahatma Gandhi needs no long introduction. Everyone knows about the man who lead the Indian people to independence from British rule in 1947.</p>
<p>So let’s just move on to some of my favourite tips from Mahatma Gandhi.</p>
<p><strong>1. Change yourself.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world – that is the myth of the atomic age – as in being able to remake ourselves.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">If you change yourself you will change your world. If you change how you think then you will change how you feel and what actions you take. And so the world around you will change. Not only because you are now viewing your environment through new lenses of thoughts and emotions but also because the change within can allow you to take action in ways you wouldn’t have – or maybe even have thought about – while stuck in your old thought patterns.</p>
<p><strong>2. You are in control.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">What you feel and how you react to something is always up to you. There may be a “normal” or a common way to react to different things. But that’s mostly just all it is.</p>
<p><strong>3. Forgive and let it go.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“An eye for eye only ends up making the whole world blind.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Fighting evil with evil won’t help anyone. And as said in the previous tip, you always choose how to react to something. When you can incorporate such a thought habit more and more into your life then you can react in a way that is more useful to you and others.</p>
<p><strong>4. Without action you aren’t going anywhere.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“An ounce of practice is worth more than tons of preaching.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Without taking action very little will be done. However, taking action can be hard and difficult. There can be much inner resistance.</p>
<p><strong>5. Take care of this moment.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“I do not want to foresee the future. I am concerned with taking care of the present. God has given me no control over the moment following.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">The best way that I have found to overcome the inner resistance that often stops us from taking action is to stay in the present as much as possible and to be accepting.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Why? Well, when you are in the present moment you don’t worry about the next moment that you can’t control anyway. And the resistance to action that comes from you imagining negative future consequences – or reflecting on past failures – of your actions loses its power. And so it becomes easier to both take action and to keep your focus on this moment and perform better.</p>
<p><strong>6. Everyone is human.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“I claim to be a simple individual liable to err like any other fellow mortal. I own, however, that I have humility enough to confess my errors and to retrace my steps.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“It is unwise to be too sure of one’s own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest might err.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">When you start to make myths out of people – even though they may have produced extraordinary results – you run the risk of becoming disconnected from them. You can start to feel like you could never achieve similar things that they did because they are so very different. So it’s important to keep in mind that everyone is just a human being no matter who they are.</p>
<p><strong>7. Persist.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">Be persistent. In time the opposition around you will fade and fall away. And your inner resistance and self-sabotaging tendencies that want to hold you back and keep you like you have always been will grow weaker.</p>
<p><strong>8. See the good in people and help them.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em> “I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won’t presume to probe into the faults of others.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“Man becomes great exactly in the degree in which he works for the welfare of his fellow-men.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“I suppose leadership at one time meant muscles; but today it means getting along with people.”</em></p>
<p><strong>9. Be congruent, be authentic, be your true self.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>“Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">I think that one of the best tips for improving your social skills is to behave in a congruent manner and communicate in an authentic way. People seem to really like authentic communication. And there is much inner enjoyment to be found when your thoughts, words and actions are aligned. You feel powerful and good about yourself.</p>
<p><strong>10. Continue to grow and evolve.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><em>”Constant development is the law of life, and a man who always tries to maintain his dogmas in order to appear consistent drives himself into a false position.”</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">You can pretty much always improve your skills, habits or re-evaluate your evaluations. You can gain deeper understanding of yourself and the world.</p>
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		<title>What Women REALLY Mean When They Say&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Adapted from an email I got this morning, here&#8217;s a list of what a woman actually means when she says certain things.  Aimed mainly at men who don&#8217;t speak female [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-4957" title="Girlfriend" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/ex-girlfriend.jpg" alt="Girlfriend" width="300" height="300" />Adapted from an email I got this morning, here&#8217;s a list of what a woman actually means when she says certain things.  Aimed mainly at men who don&#8217;t speak female fluently, it&#8217;s also a good gauge for just how female your own language and euphemisms are.  Me, I say several of these on a regular basis.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Hon</strong></span>: a one-size-fits-all non-specific substitute for anyone&#8217;s name.  For example, &#8220;thanks, hon&#8221; to the guy at McDonald&#8217;s who just handed you a drink.  Don&#8217;t mistake for a term of endearment.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Oh, I&#8217;ll do it!</span></strong> &#8212; Because your lazy ass won&#8217;t.  It also means do not ask for any sexual favors for a few days.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>What Did You Say?</strong></span> : Usually stated in a questioning/incredulous tone.  It means that we heard exactly what you said the first time and are daring you to say it again knowing with certainty you have our full attention and that what you are about to say will anger us greatly.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Are you sure?:</strong></span> Means we know you&#8217;re wrong and are giving you one last chance to change your mind.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Fine: </strong></span>This is the word we use at the end of any argument that we feel we are right about but need to shut you up. (NEVER use <em>Fine</em> to describe how a woman looks. This will cause you to have one of those arguments.)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Five minutes:</strong></span> This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before it&#8217;s over, so it’s an even trade.</p>
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<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Nothing:</strong></span> This means something, and you should be on your toes. <em>Nothing </em>is usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backward. <em>Nothing </em>usually signifies an argument that will last <em>Five Minutes</em> and end with the word <strong>Fine.</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Go Ahead </strong></span>(with raised eyebrows): This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over <em>Nothing</em> and will end with the word <em>Fine.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Go Ahead: </strong></span>(normal eyebrows): This means “I give up” or Do what you want, because I don’t care. You will get a raised eyebrow <em>Go ahead</em> in just a few minutes, followed by <em>Nothing</em> and <em>Fine</em> and she will talk to you in about <em>Five Minutes</em> when she cools off.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"> <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>A Loud Sigh:</strong></span><strong> </strong>Thisis not actually a word, but is still often a verbal statement very misunderstood by men. <em>A loud sigh </em>means she thinks you are an idiot at that moment and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you over <em>Nothing</em>.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">A soft sigh:</span>  </strong>Again, not a word, but a verbal statement. <em>Soft Sighs</em> are one of the few things that some men actually understand. She is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Oh:</strong></span><strong> </strong>This word followed by any statement is trouble. Example: “Oh, let me get that.” Or, “Oh, I talked to him about what you were doing last night.” If she says <em>Oh</em> before a statement, RUN, do not walk, to the nearest exit. She will tell you that she is <em>Fine </em>when she is done tossing your clothes out the window, but do not expect her to talk to you for at least 2 days. <em>Oh,</em> as the lead to a sentence, usually signifies that you are caught in a lie. Do not try to lie more to get out of it, or you will get <em>raised eyebrows Go ahead</em> followed by acts so unspeakable that we can’t bring ourselves to write about them.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>That’s Okay:</strong></span> <strong>This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can say to a man. </strong><em>That’s Okay</em> means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you retributions for whatever it is that you have done. <em>That’s Okay</em> is often used with the word <em>Fine </em>and used in conjunction with a <em>raised eyebrow Go ahead</em>. At some point in the near future when she has plotted and planned, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Please Do</strong></span>: This is not a statement; it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance to tell the truth, so be careful, and you shouldn’t get a <em>That’s Okay.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Thanks:</strong></span> A woman is thanking you. Do not faint; just say you’re welcome.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Thanks a lot: </strong></span>This is much different from <em>Thanks.</em> A woman will say, <em>Thanks a lot </em>when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have hurt her in some callous way, and will be followed by the <em>Loud Sigh</em>. Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the <em>Loud Sigh,</em> as she will only tell you <em>Nothing.</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>I don&#8217;t have a thing to wear!</strong></span> (before getting dressed) We say this just before we decide to go shopping.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>I don&#8217;t have a thing to wear!</strong></span> (after getting dressed) We say this to someone when we need a compliment.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 20:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: xx-small; color: #ff00ff;">Cleaning up some old posts that lingered in drafts and never were finished.  This one from late April of 2011:</span></p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff0000;">From the Department of Big LGB, Little &#8220;t&#8221;:</span></h3>
<p><div id="attachment_4952" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 410px"><img class="size-full wp-image-4952" title="frank n furter" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/frank.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="400" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Frank N Furter: Not on Glee you don&#39;t.</p></div>
<p>Fox TV&#8217;s show Glee is a show well known for its tolerance and overt positive views to lesbian, gay or bisexual characters, but as far as transgendered characters go, not so much.  In fact, it&#8217;s quite obvious that the producers and/or the network are consciously working to neuter any transgender references from the show.</p>
<p>Consider:</p>
<p>Glee has no transgendered characters, but they do have LGB characters.</p>
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<li>In the Glee &#8216;Lady Gaga&#8217;  episode, &#8220;Born This Way&#8221; was performed, four lines were cut: &#8220;No matter gay, straight or bi,/lesbian, transgendered life/I&#8217;m on the right track baby/I was born to survive.&#8221;  You might think, well, the entire LGBT reference was cut  but the singer is wearing a t-shirt that says &#8220;LIKES BOYS.&#8221;   You can make the case that it wasn&#8217;t the producers but the network that forced that change instead, because on the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ghUHkt2Y-Y" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-4951];player=swf;width=640;height=385;">YouTube/Vevo version of the song</a>, the four lines are there.</li>
<li>The &#8216;Rocky Horror&#8217; episode featured the central song to the soundtrack, &#8220;Sweet Transvestite.&#8221;  The producers changed the lyrics from &#8220;I&#8217;m just a sweet transvestite from <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">transsexual</span></em> Transylvania&#8221; to &#8220;I&#8217;m just a sweet transvestite from <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">sensational</span></em> Transylvania.&#8221;</li>
<li>The same episode had no boys dressed as Frank N. Furter &#8212; which is odd, considering that Frank N. Furter is one of the three main characters if not the main character of the play/movie.  They added insult to injury by actually going out of the way to justify it in the dialogue, with one of the mail characters  saying &#8220;My mom doesn&#8217;t want me to look like a tranny.&#8221; <br />Odd.  Supposedly a culturally sensitive show, flinging out &#8220;tranny&#8221; as a pejorative is unacceptable &#8211; especially when it went unchallenged by any other character.</li>
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<p>Really, no show has to cater to any particular group, but truthfully, it&#8217;s a little disconcerting that when a show that preaches acceptance, inclusion and tolerance, it does so to 3/4 of the LGBT spectrum while completely ignoring the most displaced of that collective community&#8230;except to toss in gratuitously insulting reference that was  not integral to the plot.  In other words, they didn&#8217;t need to do that, but probably did it anyway. That&#8217;s trans unfriendly, period.</p>
<p>Compare and contrast to another show, <a href="http://www.aoltv.com/show/degrassi-the-next-generation/185793">Degrassi</a> &#8212; <a href="http://www.aoltv.com/2011/02/11/jordan-todosey-degrassi-adam-transgender-interview/">it has a transgendered character</a>.  In my view, Glee is either gutless or transphobic.  You make the call.</p>
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		<title>Key West Has The Best &#8220;Drop&#8221; For New Years</title>
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Eleven years ago, bar owner Jimmy Gilleran came up with a crazy idea for female impersonator Gary Marion who portrays “Sushi.”
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<p><a href="http://www.newmanpr.com/2008/01/02/new-years-eve-in-key-west/">From newmanpr.com</a></p>
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<p>Eleven years ago, bar owner Jimmy Gilleran came up with a crazy idea for female impersonator Gary Marion who portrays “Sushi.”</p>
<p>“I had this vision to put ‘Sushi’ in a huge facsimile of a woman’s high heel and lower her to Duval Street as the clock strikes midnight,” Gilleran said. “Only in Key West could you do something like this.”</p>
<p>Each year the crowds get larger and the media attention grows. New Year’s Eve 2008 featured the fifth consecutive time that Sushi has appeared on the 90-minute CNN New Year’s Eve show anchored by Anderson Cooper. And the photos we shoot and release immediately after the drop are well received by various news wire services and other media venues.</p>
<p>“In Times Square, they drop the ball,” Sushi quipped. “In Key West, they drop the shoe, with Sushi in it.” </p>
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		<title>What If Comic Book Superheroes Had Transgendered Alter-Egos?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 05:40:32 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes10-she-man.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-4900];player=img;"><img class="alignright" style="margin: 10px;" title="She-Woman" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes10-she-man.jpg" alt="She-Woman, a transgendered superhero" width="331" height="399" /></a>In comic book lore, by definition, a superhero is usually the alter-ego of a seemingly regular person.</strong>  Superman has a day job as  photojournalist, for example.  Peter Parker also works in newspapers &#8212; as a reporter &#8212; until Spiderman is needed.  Batman is millionaire Bruce Wayne.</p>
<p>Other mythologies aren&#8217;t so clear cut, as it is in the case of Aquaman.  According to that lore, he is Arthur Curry, and he gained his powers through his father&#8217;s work, &#8220;by training and a hundred scientific secrets, I became what you see — a human being who lives and thrives under the water.&#8221;  Despite the nuance, the idea remains the same: that from seemingly normal people, someone with extraordinary powers lay hidden.</p>
<p>That sounds a lot like a pre-transition transgendered person, if you ask me.  For many of them, when they are at work, they are what they are: ordinary people, but away from the office, it is almost as though they are someone else entirely, yet they are the same person all the same.  And like superheroes, people in that state go to great lengths to keep their alter-egos separate from one another.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff00ff;">But&#8230;what if a comic superhero was also transgendered, and expressed that at the same time?  A pretty interesting idea, and one I wish I had thought of, because in retrospect is seems so perfectly obvious. </span></h3>
<p><a href="http://completenerdom.com/what-if-our-favorite-superheroes-were-women/">Via Completenerdom.com,</a> below is a gallery of that idea expressed by various artists, and to great effect.</p>
<p>continue on to meet Batwoman, Spiderwoman and my favorite: She-Man.</p>
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<p><span style="font-size: x-small;">Important note: these are not my works of art, and they&#8217;re exhibited here in order to illustrate and highlight the works in relation to transgendered persons.</span></p>

<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes13-venome.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Venome'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes13-venome-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Venome" title="Venome" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes19-superwoman-and-batwoman.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Superwoman and Batwoman'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes19-superwoman-and-batwoman-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Superwoman and Batwoman" title="Superwoman and Batwoman" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-6.jpeg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Superheros, Trangendered 1'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-6-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Superheros, Trangendered 1" title="Superheros, Trangendered 1" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-5.jpeg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Superheroes-As-Chicks-5'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-5-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Superheroes-As-Chicks-5" title="Superheroes-As-Chicks-5" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-19.jpeg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Spiderwoman #2'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-19-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Spiderwoman #2" title="Spiderwoman #2" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes14-spiderwoman.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Spiderwoman'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes14-spiderwoman-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="This character exists in the Spiderman canon." title="Spiderwoman" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes11-space-ghost-girl.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Space Ghost Girl'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes11-space-ghost-girl-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Space Ghost Girl" title="Space Ghost Girl" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes09-son-gokua.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Son Gokua'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes09-son-gokua-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Son Gokua" title="Son Gokua" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/she-woman-icon.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='she-woman-icon'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/she-woman-icon-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="she-woman-icon" title="she-woman-icon" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes10-she-man.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='She-Man'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes10-she-man-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="She-Man" title="She-Man" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes01-punishera.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Punishera'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes01-punishera-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Punishera" title="Punishera" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes01.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Punishera'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes01-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Punishera" title="Punishera" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes16-nightcrawl-girl.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Nightcrawl Girl'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes16-nightcrawl-girl-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Nightcrawl Girl" title="Nightcrawl Girl" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes12-iron-woman.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Iron Woman'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes12-iron-woman-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Iron Woman" title="Iron Woman" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes03-hellgirl.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Hellgirl'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes03-hellgirl-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="I had an ex-girlfriend that turned into her.  I kid." title="Hellgirl" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes15-gambitta.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Gambitta'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes15-gambitta-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Gambitta" title="Gambitta" /></a>
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<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes20-captain-harlock.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Captain Harlock'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes20-captain-harlock-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Captain Harlock" title="Captain Harlock" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes08-captain-americana.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Captain Americana'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes08-captain-americana-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Captain Americana" title="Captain Americana" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes07-bravestarla.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Bravestarla'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes07-bravestarla-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Bravestarla" title="Bravestarla" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes17-blanca.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Blanca'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes17-blanca-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Blanca" title="Blanca" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-4-batwoman.jpeg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Batwoman'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-4-batwoman-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Batwoman" title="Batwoman" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes06-astrogirl.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Astrogirl'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes06-astrogirl-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Astrogirl" title="Astrogirl" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes04-Asterixia-and-Obelixia.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Asterixia and Obelixia'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes04-Asterixia-and-Obelixia-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Asterixia and Obelixia" title="Asterixia and Obelixia" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes05-aquagirl.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='Aquagirl'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes05-aquagirl-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Aquagirl" title="Aquagirl" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-27.jpeg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='27'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-27-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="27" title="27" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-21.jpeg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='&quot;Booba Fetta&quot; #2'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/Superheroes-As-Chicks-21-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="&quot;Booba Fetta&quot; #2" title="&quot;Booba Fetta&quot; #2" /></a>
<a href='http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes18-booba_fetta.jpg' rel='shadowbox[sbalbum-4900];player=img;' title='&quot;Booba Fetta&quot;'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/crossdressing-superheroes18-booba_fetta-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="&quot;Booba Fetta&quot; (from Star Wars)" title="&quot;Booba Fetta&quot;" /></a>

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		<title>Don&#8217;t Get Stuck In Your Stockings</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 16:40:56 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Seriously, one of the most unsexy things to me are stubbly legs.  While this ad is way-over-the-top for comedy, it does prove something I tell all the girls: nothing good ever comes from not keeping your gams smooth.</p>
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		<title>A Grandparent&#8217;s Christmas Card for Their &#8220;Granddaughter&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Dec 2011 02:10:55 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes it is the little details that ruin the whole thing, and this is one of those items.  The quotation marks are demeaning in my opinion&#8230;but that&#8217;s just me.  Click through the gallery to see the inside of the card.</p>

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		<title>Is An HIV Vaccine Within Sight?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 22:10:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Since at least the 1950&#8242;s, the disease has been a modern black plague, and one that has caused endless heartbreak to whomever it touches.  For the longest time, a diagnosis [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-4889" style="margin: 10px;" title="HIV" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/HIV.jpg" alt="" width="284" height="342" />Since at least the 1950&#8242;s, the disease has been a modern black plague, and one that has caused endless heartbreak to whomever it touches.  For the longest time, a diagnosis of being HIV positive was a death sentence, with a near 100% certainty of an agonizing slow march towards the graveyard.  That&#8217;s changed, thanks to billions of dollars of research, and today, it&#8217;s possible to manage an HIV infection and extend life &#8212; albeit very carefully and at great expense.</p>
<p>But that may &#8212; repeat, MAY &#8212; be about to change:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>Canadian researchers working on <a href="http://www.ottawacitizen.com/health/Canadians+start+vaccine+clinical+trials/5890341/story.html">a vaccine to prevent HIV announced Tuesday they have received approval from the U.S. Food and Drug Administration to begin clinical trials on humans in January.</a></p>
<p>A team led by Dr. Chil-Yong Kang, a virologist at the University of Western Ontario, plans to start Phase 1 of clinical trials on 40 HIV-positive patients to test the safety of the vaccine.</p>
<p>&#8220;FDA approval for human clinical trials is an extremely significant milestone for our vaccine, which has the potential to save the lives of millions of people around the world by preventing HIV infection,&#8221; Kang said in a news release.</p>
<p>It could be about five years before the vaccine goes on the market, Kang told Postmedia News.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>Without any doubt whatsoever, if successful, this will be the greatest triumph in modern medicine in this generation.</p>
<p>You can see a video report after the jump:</p>
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		<title>Being Transgendered is Still a Mental Illness in China</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 14:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>In many ways, China is quickly becoming the most powerful country in the world: it has a manufacturing base that&#8217;s probably the largest in the world, its financial prowess is quickly becoming the most powerful on the globe, and indeed it won&#8217;t be long until it is the largest overall economy on Earth.  It has the largest standing army and it is rapidly equaling the west in terms of its technology, It has an exploding middle class, and for many of its people, China is becoming the land of plenty.</p>
<p>But wait, not so fast, if one is transgendered in China.  Despite its lack of Judeo-Christian prejudices, China has a long way to go when it comes in granting equal rights to transgendered persons.  From the English edition of the <a href="http://english.peopledaily.com.cn/90882/7680769.html">People&#8217;s Daily</a>:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>It has been 28 years since China&#8217;s first case transgender, Zhang Kesha, completed her surgeries, yet transsexuality remains listed as a mental disorder by China&#8217;s medical establishment. &#8220;It says we are abnormal and transsexual surgery is the cure,&#8221; said Chen, wondering if that is truly the case why the treatment isn&#8217;t more readily available. </p>
<p>&#8220;There is no exact number of how many transgender people have had their surgeries in China because there is no department that counts,&#8221; said [Acid] Chen [a 24 year old pre-op transsexual.] </p>
<p>Li Yinhe, a noted sexologist said while the country has dropped homosexuality from the list of mental disorders, she&#8217;s not sure China is ready to end the same discrimination against transsexuality. </p>
<p>&#8220;In China we have laws to protect women and children and ethnic groups, but we don&#8217;t have one to protect people&#8217;s gender orientation. Society still needs time to consider whether it can protect them.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Chen&#8217;s statement &#8220;society still needs time to consider whether it can protect them&#8221; is telling.  Despite its rapid growth, in some ways, Chinese society still has some catching up to do when it comes to social issues. As late as in 2001, transsexuality in China was barely acknowledged even within the scientific community.  That began to change, albeit slowly, and with a twist that would be utterly unacceptable: In June 2009, the Chinese government was reportedly set up the nation&#8217;s first guidelines for sex-reassignment surgery, which possibly required candidates to gain police approval before undergoing the procedure.</p>
<p>The history of SRS in China is somewhat more complex: in 1989, without permission or fanfare, a Dr. He Qinglian performed  the first documented sex change in China, but ostensibly may not have been the very first one: SRS was apparently performed secretly in Beijing in 1983 on the 20-year-old son of a senior army official, <a href="http://www.gaylawnet.com/laws/cn.htm">according to gaylawnet.com.</a></p>
<p>A 2009 article in China Daily has <a href="http://www.china.org.cn/government/central_government/2009-06/17/content_17962258.htm">an interesting article regarding SRS and transsexuality in the country</a>:</p>
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<p>On June 16 C</p>
<p>hina&#8217;s Ministry of Health unveiled a set of regulations entitled &#8220;Technical Management Standards of Transsexual Operations&#8221; in order to solicit feedback from the public.</p>
<p>The move indicates that the regulatory gap in the gender-alteration business will soon be plugged, the <em>Beijing News</em> reported.</p>
<p>According to this version of the regulations, hospitals at the highest technical level with more than 10 years&#8217; experience in the field of plastic surgery will be qualified to carry out transsexual operations. Moreover, every such hospital shall set up a technical and ethics committee consisting of experts in physiology, law, and ethics. The committee is responsible for analyzing potential operations and giving the go-ahead.</p>
<p>Qualified doctors must hold professional licenses and have more than 10 years&#8217; experience in plastic surgery, including more than five years in transsexual operations. Additionally, they should have independently completed a minimum of 10 cases of sexual organ reconstruction before performing a full-scale operation.</p>
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<p>The same article notes that China also has a standard for transsexuals to qualify for surgery that is higher than in the west:</p>
<blockquote>
<p>They are also required to prove a consistent desire for a sex change, to have lived full-time for at least five consecutive years in the new gender role, and to engage in psychological therapy for at least one year.</p>
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<p>On the surface, indeed, it would seem that China has been considering transsexuality for more than a decade, however, as it is in the west the biological roots of transsexuality are still largely unknown.  That leaves a gap between the idea that transgender issues are a perversion and the reality that it is something someone is, not something someone does for sexual gratification.  While surely China has some transvestic fetishists &#8212; men with that particular paraphilia seem to be in every modern society &#8212; the nuance between them and a truly transgendered person is unknown generally.  In that, the country is much like the west: only through education can people learn the truth.</p>
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		<title>Thoughts To Remember In Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Dec 2011 12:52:05 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I saw this on <a href="http://www.divinecaroline.com/">Divine Caroline</a>, a great site that has good advice and ideas, and one well worth the time to check out.  This is only an excerpt,<a href="http://www.divinecaroline.com/22065/35337-wants"> so go click on over to Divine Caroline to read the rest:</a></p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff00ff;">If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.</span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #ff00ff;">If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.</span></h3>
<p>Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.</p>
<p>Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.</p>
<p>Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff00ff;">Slower is better.</span></h3>
<p>Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.</p>
<p>If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t &#8220;be friends.&#8221;</p>
<p>A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.</p>
<p>Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.</p>
<p>Don’t stay because you think &#8220;it will get better.&#8221; You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff00ff;"><strong>The only person you can control in a relationship is you.</strong></span></h3>
<p>Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.</p>
<p>He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,</p>
<p>Why would he treat you any differently?</p>
<p>Always have your own set of friends separate from his.</p>
<p>Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.</p>
<p>If something bothers you, speak up.</p>
<p>Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.</p>
<p>You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.</p>
<p>Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are&#8230;even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.</p>
<p>He is a man, nothing more nothing less.</p>
<p>Never let a man define who you are.</p>
<h3><span style="color: #ff00ff;">Never borrow someone else’s man.</span></h3>
<h3><span style="color: #ff00ff;">If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.</span></h3>
<p>A man will only treat you the way you <em>allow</em> him to treat you.</p>
<p>All men are <em>not</em> dogs.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.divinecaroline.com/22065/35337-wants"> read the rest</a></p>
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		<title>Thai Airline Featuring Transsexual Flight Attendants Ready to Take Off</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 16:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tina</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[PC Air, a fledgling air carrier from Thailand, is about to begin operations in Bangcock.  While that may not be much in the way of global news, PC Air&#8217;s employment [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_4867" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 374px"><img class=" wp-image-4867" title="PC Air's Four Third-Sex Flight Attendants" src="http://www.shesmetoo.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/pc-air.jpg" alt="PC Air's Four Third-Sex Flight Attendants" width="364" height="273" /><p class="wp-caption-text">PC Air&#39;s Four Third-Sex Flight Attendants</p></div>
<p><a href="http://www.pcairline.com/">PC Air</a>, a fledgling air carrier from Thailand, is about to begin operations in Bangcock.  While that may not be much in the way of global news, PC Air&#8217;s employment practices are: it is the first airline to openly hire third-sexed flight attendants and is making no bones about its policies of employment oppurtuntity. &#8221;It&#8217;s our policy to promote equality,&#8221; said Peter Chan, the CEO of PC Air.</p>
<p>All together, <a href="http://www.pcairline.com/">PC Air </a>has hired four transsexual females, nineteen genetic females and seven males to provide flight attendant services. One of the four is Thanyarat Chirapatpakorn (second from right in the photo), who was crowned Miss Tiffany Universe 2007 and is best known as a model and soap opera actress who uses the name &#8220;Nong Film.&#8221;</p>
<p>PC Air&#8217;s first operational flight is December 24th.  After a short period as a charter-only service, it plans to expand to regularly scheduled routes after purchasing an additional two aircraft.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s quite laudable that a new business is willing to to such a stand, given the tone and tenor of various anti-LGBT forces around the world and their willingness to sensationalize, lie and distort any positive news for transgendered people with scare tactics that have no basis in reality. Undoubtedly, the transgendered flight attendants will be professional, courteous and effective, and will present PC Air in a positive light.  I do know that given the opportunity, I will fly them, and not to gawk at or meet the transgendered flight attendants, but instead to convey my support for their policies the most effective way I know how: by buying their product. </p>
<p>After the jump, see PC Air&#8217;s television commercial from their website:</p>
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<p>(<a href="http://www.bangkokpost.com/business/aviation/271041/pc-air-finally-ready-to-spread-its-wings">photo via Bangcock Times</a>)</p>
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		<title>A History of Pantyhose and Also Why Women Shave Their Legs</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 14:13:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a history of pantyhose and also why women shave their legs&#8230;some good information and a bit of accidental comedy.
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